

7 Conversations You Must Have Before You Say I Do is more than a premarital guide. It is a transformative resource for anyone who desires healthier love, deeper connection, and lasting emotional clarity. Whether you are preparing to build a strong, lifelong marriage or healing from heartbreak, a breakup, or relational pain, this book helps you understand what truly matters before you move forward in love.
By addressing the conversations most people avoid, including values, expectations, money, communication, family, children, spiritual life, and partnership roles, this book helps couples build a solid foundation for marriage. It also helps individuals reflect on past relationships, heal emotional wounds, recognize patterns, and prepare their hearts for healthier love in the future.
Rooted in the Soulful Lover approach, this guide teaches you how to communicate with compassion, listen with empathy, and grow through understanding rather than assumption. You will gain tools to turn honest conversations into emotional safety, deeper intimacy, and renewed confidence in love, whether you are loving again or loving better.
When you join the pre-launch, you receive early access to the book, a heartfelt surprise gift from Dr. Sis, and first access to guidance that turns heartbreak into healing and βI doβ into a lasting, joy-filled partnership.

If you have ever struggled to say what is really in your heart, felt misunderstood in your relationship, or wanted a deeper kind of love, Dr. Sis created this work with you in mind.
As the author of The Seven Conversations You Must Have Before You Say I Do and founder of The Conversation Project, Dr. Ledbetter helps you learn how to communicate with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Her proven approach combines psychology, soulful self-awareness, and real-life wisdom to guide you through the conversations that build trust, deepen intimacy, and prevent misunderstandings before they grow into distance.
Her training spans North Carolina Central University, Howard University, Georgetown University, and Harvard, but her greatest passion is helping you feel seen, heard, and emotionally safe in your relationships. Through years of leadership in higher education, public service, and media, including hosting A Healthy Mind, she has developed simple, practical tools you can use right away to create healthier, more intentional connections.
What makes her work especially powerful is that it comes from lived experience. The Seven Conversations was shaped by her own relationship journey, so you are learning from someone who understands the real struggles and the real transformation that love requires. Through her guidance, you will learn how to move from silence to honest dialogue, from surface-level talks to soul-deep connection, and from confusion to clarity.
Even beyond her credentials, Dr. Sis brings warmth, relatability, and joy to everything she teaches. She believes in bravery, handwritten notes, meaningful questions, and celebrating small sacred moments. If you are ready to build a relationship rooted in truth, peace, and lasting love, you are in the right place.
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Created by Dr. Sis to help couples communicate with honesty and compassion.
Built on real psychology, real experience, and the transformative 7 Conversations framework.
A breakthrough process helping couples prepare for marriage with confidence and lasting love.
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